When I was packing to drive to Richmond for a week, I was operating under the assumption that I would probably be doing the same things on a day-to-day basis as I do at home, with the notable exception of going to work. There would be dogs to walk and entertain, but that wouldn't take up all my time. I packed my PlayStation 3, thinking I'd watch Stargate while job-hunting online. I even picked up a used copy of Assassin's Creed, a video game I'd been thinking of checking out. I'd need a break from the Stargate and job stuff, I decided. And then I got down there, and was seized with the urge to
explore.
I've been to Richmond so many times that I forgot I'd never really
seen Richmond. Usually we're down for a family gathering or on the way to the beach in North Carolina. But Richmond is a vibrant, interesting city and really there is so much to see! I spent most of my time in
Carytown, mainly because it's very close to my aunt's house, but I also consulted the Design Sponge
Richmond city guide for ideas. Here's a little not-so-little list of the things I saw and loved.
Culture
Maymont -
Maymont, built in 1893, was the home of the Dooley family. The house and its furnishings were left to the city of Richmond at their deaths, meaning it's in remarkably whole and immaculate condition for an historic house. The furnishings are especially exciting, as some are pretty darn wacky (
case in point). Aside from the house, the estate also includes two gardens (the Japanese garden in particular is large and intoxicatingly beautiful), an impressive collection of historic carriages, and a small zoo.
Hollywood Cemetery - This is Richmond's
big historic cemetery, and I have no idea whose idea the "Hollywood" was. Home to the final resting spots of two US Presidents and Mr. Jefferson Davis of the CSA himself, there's a lot of historic significance in this graveyard. However, I found it appealing for another reason entirely. It's quiet. It's
beautiful. It sits right over the river, and the trees keep it sheltered from the sun on hot days. In short, it may be Richmond's most perfect park, if you don't mind sharing space with ghosts. There are graveyard maps available for purchase for $1 just inside the gate, but I found if you follow the well-marked blue painted line through the cemetery, you can find all the really significant stuff from the road. Be sure to check out the
stone dog.
Virginia Museum of Fine Arts - I've
already written about the
VMFA, so I'll keep it short: it's great. It's a fantastic museum with an AMAZEBALLS decorative arts collection (primarily Art Nouveau and Art Deco), and the 20th and 21st Century art collections aren't too shabby, either. Best of all, it's free! They do charge for special exhibitions (there wasn't one this week), but based on my experience those are usually worth the price of admission.
Shop
Need Supply - It's
no secret I love
this place, it's a great little boutique representing the best of both local and national designers. I walked away with just jewelry, more because of their dearth of larger sizes than anything else. Their denim selection is amazing, but sadly they carry nothing above a size 30 (about a 10). They do, however, have
TOMs shoes in stock, if you've ever wanted to try them out.
Mongrel - This is about as close as Richmond gets to a place to buy souvenirs, though it's closer to a locally owned Paper Source than anything else.
Mongrel carries gifts and cards of all shapes and sizes, things you need and things you don't, and is super classy about it. I think my mother put it best when she observed that she "could do a lot of damage to a Christmas stocking" in Mongrel.
World of Mirth - On the surface,
World of Mirth is a toy store, but just walking through the door shatters that illusion. Whoever does the buying for this place is a kitsch-loving nerd, and it is fantastically obvious. From the cabinet of Day of the Dead skeleton goodies to the
hipster fake tattoos, by the time you hit the wall of Doctor Who items near the back of the store, I can guarantee you'll have found something to make you smile. And lest you think it's only fun for adults, I assure you there's plenty for kids to delight in, too.
Antiques in Manchester -
AIM, as it's called, is a Saturday antiques market in the Manchester area of the city. It takes place in a covered alley, so I imagine it operates rain or shine. I went expecting to ooh and aah over things I could not afford and maybe pick up some art if I liked anything, but was surprised to find things well within my price range (and this from someone who pays full price--bartering terrifies me). I walked away with furniture, but there were plenty of people selling jewelry, textiles, and assorted decorative elements, too.
Chop Suey Books - Another Carytown gem, this new/used
bookstore has loads to offer, complete with the requisite uninterested bookstore cat. They don't have much in the way of genre fiction (romance, mystery, sci-fi, etc.), but they do have a delightful offering of older pulp fiction paperbacks, and a fantastic poetry selection. Non-fiction's not really my bag, but those sections looks formidable, as well.
Eat
New York Deli - Deli fare with a spin,
this place serves food that's simply great. They've been doing it longer than any other place in Richmond, so they should know their stuff. I've never been in the evening, but the bar looks pretty solid, too. Bonus: PHOTOBOOTH.
The Belvidere at Broad - My mom and I chose
this place for our Mother's Day dinner, and were so proud of ourselves for venturing out away from Cary St. I was impressed by their vegan and gluten-free selections, as well as their beer and bourbon lists. Our one complaint was that our food was a bit too salty for our taste, but other than that it was delicious. I had the vegetarian Nicoise Salad, which was a rare treat.
Amuse - This
restaurant may be inside the VMFA, but don't let that fool you--this is no ordinary museum eatery. With an impressive, ever-changing menu (they focus on what's in season locally, and take inspiration from whatever's currently showing at the museum), Amuse is a different restaurant every time you visit. We sat outside overlooking the sculture garden and slurped cool spring onion vichyssoise--perfect for a warm spring afternoon.
Carytown Burgers and Fries - If you're someone who appreciates a finely crafted burger, then
this place is a must for you. A teeny space that feels as "hole-in-the-wall" as it gets, the food is worth and wait and the inevitable crowd. I'm a non-vegetarian who happens to really love veggie burgers, so I was delighted to find not one, but
three veggie options on the menu--Boca, veggie, and black bean. I went with the veggie, and was well pleased. I took my food to go, but there is also an outdoor area to sit and dine.
Can Can Brasserie - a perennial favourite, you can't hit Carytown without checking out
Can Can. A French eatery that actually feels Parisien, this place is a treat. However traditional it may look, however, Can Can puts their own spin on classic French foods. I dined here for lunch, but the brunch menu looked delicious, too (and from the brunch crowd we saw another day, I'd say it is)!
Conch Republic - Right on the James River,
Conch Republic is a great place to spend a warm evening. This place is all about the Florida Keys, with a menu chock-full of seafood and even some unexpected gator. I had the spinach and strawberry salad, which was about as delicious as a salad has any right to be.
I highly recommend Richmond as a place to spend a day or weekend or week or month, there's so much to see and do. I'd love to have done more, but basically I ran out of money (random observation: the Richmond HomeGoods was about the most impressive HomeGoods I've been in). Honestly, if you can take only one thing away from this list, see the cemetery. It may seem morbid, but it really is a lovely, lovely place to spend time.
And now back to my regularly scheduled life.
was a good choice for the beach.
Hammered Chevron Earrings from Need Supply - I picked these up last weekend and have had to resist the urge to wear them every single day every since. They're light and sassy and not too big, perfect for my freakishly little ears. I nabbed mine at Need Supply's brick and mortar store, but they're also available online.
Artsy bowls - Rather than use ugly plastic or metal water dishes for her dogs, my aunt has several gorgeous pottery bowls scattered throughout the house. In addition to being beautiful--it's like finding a piece of art where you least expected it--they're also incredibly functional. They're heavy--if you've ever had a dog who liked to play "drag the water bowl around," then you know what that's worth--but not so heavy to make picking them up to refill a backbreaking chore. Here are two pieces I liked. 
Tattly temporary tattoos - After years of maybes, I've come to the conclusion that I am not destined to ever have a tattoo. Which is maybe why I love Tattly tattoos so much--they're all artist-designed and of super-high, long-lasting quality. I get to have a tattoo for just long enough to satisfy myself. I discovered with delight that World of Mirth, a fantastic toy-and-kitsch store here in Richmond, carried Tattly and eagerly picked up a set of Marc Johns' boombox tattoos. I am so in love with this little guy, I never want to cover up my forearms again.
After years of searching, I have found the perfect bedspread--the Isleta Duvet from Anthropologie, but of course it is excessively expensive, as it is from Anthropologie. I called my mother, heartbroken. "I found the perfect duvet, but it's a million dollars!" "Then it isn't perfect, is it?" Fair point, Mom. My only hope is that everyone else on the planet finds it horribly ugly and I'm able to snatch it up at cost.
I bought this dress intending to wear it to a wedding, realized it wasn't right for the occasion immediately after putting it on, but loved it too much to return. It's the Sunset Valley Dress from Need Supply, and if you intend to hang out with me much this summer, you should get used to seeing this dress because it is maybe the best thing I have ever owned.
I would like a pair of these in every color. I usually stay far away from heels if given the choice, but I am loving that wedges are back in fashion, and Marais USA's T-Bar Wedge most of all.
One of the advantages to having a fully black dog is that graphic collars looks great on her. You might think that's a silly statement, but remember I am the girl who gave her dog a red velvet chair because she looked fantastic sitting in it. Vista's collar is looking rough these days, and I'm dying to replace it with one of these from See Scout Sleep. Specifically the bottom one. I'd even spring for a matching leash.
Speaking of dogs, have you seen the tumblr Maddie on Things? It is the best. Maddie, a coonhound, is positively the best at being on things, and her owner, Theron Humphrey, is the best at capturing her on them.
I downloaded the first book in Rachel Caine's Weather Warden series this weekend, and since then I have read one of them a day. I cannot stop. They're paranormal romance, only instead of the typical overplayed vampire trope, the heroine can control the weather and the hero is a Djinn. Caine is aces at keeping up the momentum without making you feel like you yourself are running a race, and the snappy, sassy dialogue keeps the repeated brushes with the apocalypse from feeling too maudlin. I'm up to book five, and I will probably finish it today.
Recently, I've been rewatching Stargate SG-1 and Stargate Atlantis. I haven't been devoting all of my attention to them--they're usually on while I write, or research, or generally have my finger on the beating pulse of social media. But the fact remains that--my love for Star Wars aside (and let it be said that I love Star Wars, an awful, awful lot)--Stargate is my sci-fi. That's it. It's a universe I adore, and one I'm getting a kick out of revisiting. Good guys, bad guys, wormholes, wonky physics, space ships, and lots and lots of snark. All of both shows are on Netflix.
And, just to bring things full circle, I'll end on a covetous note. I am in love with this ring. I stumbled across it on the Need Supply website some weeks ago, and have been actively coveting it ever since. It's made by In God We Trust, and it's everything I love in a ring: delicate, simple, but not uninteresting. I'll be spending a week in the same city as Need Supply next month, and it's going to be an exercise in temptation.
burnt carrot salad from U Street Girl, a friend and extremely talented chef. I'm kind of cheating, as I haven't tried it yet, but I have eaten a ton of arugula lately.
little bro and me in Pompeii 
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